One week ago I had the opportunity of attending a power training. Not knowing quite what to expect but trusting my good friends recommendation, I committed with Tall One and we dragged Mr. O. along. We were given an amazing deal on the price and spent the next two days changing from the inside.
I have never experienced anything quite like it. We felt safe yet challenged. I did things I have never done before. I accepted assignments I would normal run from and then received a re-do on them. I felt stretched physically, mentally, emotionally, and feed spiritually. This kind of training is usually done for corporations building a team, professionals seeking power. For us, a group of youth and parents, we were an exception. It worked so well to our advantage. We were equals as we watched one another struggle with similar challenges, doubts, tears, and triumphs. I got to observe my own 15 yo stretch in uncomfortable ways, rise to new challenges. I got to see my husband of 27 years have new "a ha" moments and become teachable in a way he normal refuses to even consider. We found power within each of us that we hadn't even been looking for. We faced blocks that have kept us from progressing. We learned to think beyond the boundaries and find solutions. We even began to trust the process we did not understand and then walked across hot coals in our bare feet without pain or logical explanation.
I learned that life is bigger than I think. I can do more than I thought. Fear does not bless my life and failing does not end it. I learned that when we join in community or fellowship we become stronger, we become closer to one another. When we look into another's eyes seeking to really see - we do. There is so much we can learn by listening to others and the things they see in us. There are ways I can bless others by speaking up and sharing the power I see in them.
I also learned that having a vision is important. Remembering that vision is important. Writing it down, praying over it, and writing again is important. Having a goal, a direction, a road map is important and listening to my guide and my loved ones is important. Being willing to be teachable, accepting feedback, and making course corrections is important. I learned that I can do hard things, even impossible things, when I need to (and its easier when surrounded by good people cheering you on).
I have a vision. I will fight for my vision. I am a powerful woman with a purpose and I am not alone.